Episode 101

Win Your Relationship with Dr. John Gray | Win the Day® podcast
August 23, 2022
Dr John Gray is the author of 'Men Are from Mars, Wen Are from Venus', a book series that has sold 50M+ copies.
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John Gray is the author of mega-bestseller, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. It’s been named one of the most influential books of all time and was the #1 best-selling hardcover book of the 1990s.

Dr. Gray is a prolific author, with more than 20 books available in 50 languages in 150+ countries.

His work unites communication, nutrition, and health, to create the brain and body chemistry for lasting well-being, happiness, and romance. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep.

Dr. Gray has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show and Good Morning America. He’s also been featured in Time, Forbes, and USA Today, and was the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters.

His latest book is Beyond Mars and Venus where he shares relationship skills to thrive in today’s complex modern world.

Dr. Gray lives in Northern California where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. 

In this episode:

  • Proven tips to immediately strengthen your relationship
  • The biggest mistakes people make in the home
  • Secrets of a happy marriage; and
  • How to achieve your highest level of fulfillment.

Let’s WIN THE DAY with relationship expert, Dr. John Gray!


0:18 Who is Dr John Gray

2:44 Differences between men and women

5:35 How the role of women has shifted

7:55 What men and women need

10:58 Biggest tip for men

14:06 How to prevent escalation

17:26 Biggest tip for women

19:37 Understanding a man’s cave

23:00 How to bring more romance into the relationship

27:54 What happens when a man gets angry

30:52 Why women need to come first

34:06 What a healthy relationship is

35:30 How relationships without intimacy can get back on track

41:42 How to increase sexual attraction

47:57 The truth about the 5 Love Languages

50:06 How to show appreciation for a woman

52:27 Rocket Round


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⚡ John Gray website

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📚 ‘Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus’ by John Gray

📙 ‘Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World’ by John Gray

🧭 ‘Codependent No More’ by Melody Beattie

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